关于爱和钱的辩论赛

学会爱，很重要
被热炒数日的女粉丝疯狂追星事件已趋于平息，而作为事件的主角杨丽娟也几乎被众人的吐沫所淹没。一些日子以来，对杨丽娟的讽刺、挖苦、谩骂可谓铺天盖地。人们骂她无耻，骂她神经病，骂她不孝不忠，骂她最终逼死了自己的亲生父亲。
有人说，杨丽娟他们是"生活在自己逻辑里的一家人"，这很贴切。按常理，她及其一家人的所言所作所为让人一次次地惊得目瞪口呆，甚至让人气愤得咬牙切齿。那么，这个悲剧缘何而来？父母的娇生惯养、媒体的推波助澜、中学教育的重智轻德、个人性情的偏执自私云云，如此这般，可以堆成一大箩筐。其中，很多人认为，杨对社会、对家庭极度地不负责任，这是问题的要害所在。也不乏网友晓之以理、动之以情，好言相劝她尽早回头，出来工作，孝敬父母。
我想，杨丽娟已不是小孩子，而是个神志还算清醒的成年人。整个事件中，讨问她作为成年人的社会责任感、家庭责任感，这完全在理。不过，我觉得，对杨丽娟个人或者对其家庭而言，悲剧的发生，还有一个不可忽略的深层问题，那就是杨丽娟自小没有学会爱，其父母没有教会她如何去爱。
看似，杨丽娟在爱，甚至这种爱在她的心灵世界里已经满满当当，以致泛滥成灾。十三年啊，花样的年华，她则不上学、不工作、不交友、不嫁人，封闭自我，终日以刘德华的画像、歌碟之类为伴，这不是爱，是什么？而且，人世间能有几人舍弃一切来追逐如此疯狂且长久的爱？单单从这一点来说，杨丽娟是令人同情的。因为时到如今，长达十三年的这个梦已幻灭，杨丽娟的精神世界轰然坍塌。这个女孩，将来的日子该怎么去过？但，不得不说，她这种爱是畸形的，病态的，狭隘的，使她成为了爱的奴隶，爱的乞丐。而面对自己的父母，面对周围的世界，面对这个社会，她则是一片爱的沙漠、爱的死海。对这一切，她无爱。当老父亲为自己所谓的梦想而走上绝路，投海自尽，她也曾泪流满面地喊出过她心中的爱：我爱爸爸。这不免让那些一直对其行为进行谴责、表示愤懑的人们生起了怜悯之心。可很快，人们就发现，她所谓的"爱"还是源自她极度的自私：没有了爸爸，我该怎么办？据悉，就在两天前，二度进港的杨丽娟再次和母亲发生争执，竟然弃体弱多病的老母亲于不顾，一人拂袖而去，最终由警察寻回安排才在警署与母亲重聚。
善良的人们自然不愿意看见杨父迈出那一步。可悲剧已发生，一切无可挽回。为了女儿一个荒唐的梦而舍弃一切，包括生命，那大海在作证：此父爱深过海！可他爱得又是多么的糊涂！更令人愕然的是，他坚持把糊涂的爱进行到底，竟然以生命的代价来为这个梦争取更好的结局或更持久的延续。再说杨丽娟，几乎关注事态发展的所有人都曾在那一刻对杨丽娟抱有期待：她应该能醒了。而事实上，她一点反悔之意都没有。有个成语叫作“死灰复燃”，而说到底，杨丽娟的内心，连点滴的子女之爱的死灰都不曾存在过，即便老父亲付出绝然的代价，又何以复燃？
责任是理，爱则是情，情理相容，情理相持。而两者之间，爱才是基础，如果没有由心而生的爱作为支撑，也就没有持久的责任，或者这种责任的肩负显得冷冰冰、赤裸裸。如果，对子女来说，孝敬父母仅仅是因为责任和义务，就足见其冷酷甚至残忍。应该说，子女孝敬父母是因为心中有爱，而此时，"责任"两个字，你可能想都没有去想。只要你学会了爱，它的存在、它的付出，便是自然的，不用以"责任"两个字去促发、牵引的。一如，当你看见他们操心劳累，你的眼眶会湿润；看着他们日渐老去，你的心会隐隐作痛；如果他们受到病痛的折磨，你就会祈求上苍：一切的一切，让我来承受，不要让病魔找我的双亲！你会倾心倾意地用爱、用你的行动去温暖他们的世界。这是爱，有了这样的爱，"责任"二字何用？而杨丽娟早早放弃学业，完全回归到那样一个脱离于外界的家庭，并且被父母溺爱成骄横固执的女王，她怎能学会去爱社会、爱别人、爱父母？所以说，杨丽捐缺失的，首先是爱，而后才是责任。与爱相比，责任是底线。正因为，她没有学会如何去爱，根本不懂得爱，我们才会退一步而求其次，追问起她的责任感来。
所以，很想说，作为一个人，学会爱是根基。作为父母，教会孩子学会如何爱亲人，爱朋友，爱这个社会，爱这个世界，真的是很重要很重要。

　　Love is more important than money
　　One might say that money makes the mare go. In other words,many things can be bought with money. As a matter of fact, we cannot do anything without money in many cases. Therefore, money is indispensable to us. As for love, it’s the motive power of life. I take it for granted that it’s very valuable and necessary for the happy living. In practice, I maintain that love is more important than love.

　　No doubt, love is above wealth. Can you imagine how terrible it is without love? But the problem is that many people don’t know the value of love until they lose it. They pursue wealth so hard without paying any attention to cultivate the love between people. They don’t realize that love is the most important thing that they should cherish most. Just having a think,what’s the use of wealth without love? Provided that we lose wealth, we may regain it by working hard. Put the case that we lose love,it’s impossible to make up for it!

　　To sum up, love is more important than money. Under no circumstances should we neglect the importance of love.

　　"The Only Thing People Are Interested
　　in Today Is Earning More Money."

　　Once upon a time there lived a beautiful young woman and a handsome young man . They were very poor, but a's they were deeply in love, they wanted to get married. The young people's parents shook their heads. "You can' t get married yet," they said. "Wait till you get a good job with good prospects."So the young. people waited until they found good jobs with good prospects and they were able to get married. They were still poor,of course. They didn't have a house to live in or any furniture, but that didn't matter. The young man had a good job with good prospects, so large arganizations lent him the money he needed to buy a house, some furniture, all the latest electrical appliances and a car. The couple lived happily ever after paying off debts for the rest of their lives. And so.ends another modern romantic fable.

　　We live in a materialistic society and are trained from our earliest years to be acquisitive. Our possessions, "mine"and "yours", are clearly labelled from early childhood. When we grow old enough to earn a living, it does not surprise us to discover that success is measured in terms of the money you earn. We spend the whole of our lives keepig up with our neigbbours, the Joneses. If we buy a new television set, Jones is bound to buy a bigger and better one. If we buy a new car, we Can be sure that Jones will go one better and get two new cars: one for his wife and one for himself . The most amusing thing about this game is that the Joneses and all the neighbours who are struggling frantically to keep up with them are spending borrowed money kindly provided, at a suitable rate of interest, of course, by friendly banks, insurance companies, etc.

　　It is not only in affluent societies that people are obsessed with the idea of making more money. Consumer goods are desirable everywhere and modern industry deliberately sets out to create new markets. Gone are the days when industrial goods were made to last forever. The wheels of industry must be kept turning. "Built-in obsolescence" provides the means: goods are made to be discarded.Cars get tinnier and tinnier. You no sooner acquire this year's model than you are thinking about its replacement.

　　This materialistic outlook has seriously influenced education. Fewer and fewer young people these days acquire knowledge only for its own sake . Every course of studies must lead somewhere: i. e. to a bigger wage packet. The demand for skilled personnel far exceeds the supply and big eompanies compete with each other to recruit students before they have completed their studies. Tempting salaries and "fringe benefits" are offered to them. Recruiting tactics of this kind have led to the "brain drain",the process by which highly skilled people offer their services to the highest bidder. The wealthier nations deprive their poorer neighbours of their most able citizens. While Mammon is worshipped as never before, the rich get richer and the poor, poorer.

钱更重要才是。
有了钱，那么你的受会随之而来，不要以为所有的人都是因为钱才爱，我想如果你没有钱，你的爱再深，也没有用，毕竟要有钱来支持你的爱!

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