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正确的放弃，才是成功的选择

生活中的人们或许都有过某种重要东西丢失的事情，并且在心理上大都会留下这样那样的阴影，或许会为生活中发生的一次误会而懊恼不已，或许会为生命中悄然流失的岁月而惋惜悲伤，或许会对人生中曾经的辉煌而留恋感叹！究其原因，无非就是没有及时调整好心态面对失去，没有从心理上承认失去，总是放不下失去这个沉重的包袱，总是沉湎于已经不存在的东西。
　　人生在世，不如意的事情可能会随时发生，因为，这世界毕竟不是你一个人的世界，造物主也不可能把所有的好事都降临在你一个人的头上，上帝在为你敞开一扇门的同时，也对你关闭了另一扇门，在你有所收获的同时也要你失去些什么。
　　那么，在我们的人生不是一帆风顺的时候，在我们的人生出现一些挫折的时候，在我们的人生缺少了掌声与鲜花的时候，在我们的人生遭遇选择与放弃两难的时候，我们该怎么办？
　　这时候，不妨后退一步，不妨换一种角度去衡量、去看待人生路上的得与失，认真而理性地去发现去处理，就会发现天空依然晴朗，世界依然美丽，人生照样美好。就会发现在对一种事物放弃的同时又会换来另一种不非的收获。有时候，失去不一定全是损失，反而是一种奉献，放弃更不一定都是忧伤，相反会成为一种美丽，因为放弃本身就意味着选择，正确的放弃，才是成功的选择。
　　在一列行驶的火车上，一老人不小心把刚买的新鞋弄掉了一只，周围的人都替他惋惜。不料那位老人立即把第二只鞋毫不犹豫地从窗口扔了出去，众人诧异。老人解释道：“这一只鞋无论多么的昂贵，对我来说已没有了任何用处，如果被谁捡到一双鞋，说不定还能穿呢！”
　　显然，老人的行为已有了价值判断：与其抱残守缺，不如断然放弃。
　　现实生活中，也许我们每个人都可能会遇到失去，与其为失去懊恼，还不如正视现实，也许你所失去的，正是他人所希望得到的；与其在为失去的痛苦中挣扎、浪费时间，还不如断然放弃，努力去寻找另一种选择。
　　这也正如人生中的许多失败一样，既然已经无法挽回，再去惋惜悔恨也于事无补。与其在回顾中暗自伤神，还不如环顾四周，重新振作，珍惜现在的拥有。不要因为失败与失去而做无谓的自责和叹息；学会放弃，就会发现人生是一种真正的超越，一种真正的战胜自我的强者姿态。
　　就让我们学会放弃吧，因为学会放弃，本身就是一种淘汰，一种选择，淘汰自己的弱项与不足，选择自己的强项与优势。放弃不是不思进取，因为，恰到好处地放弃，正是为了更好地进取。

Life medium of people probably and all once had a certain importance the thing throw to lose of affair, and is mentally and mostly willing leave so so of shadow, probably would is in the life occurrence of a misunderstand but displeased not already and probably would for the years that run off quietly in the life but feel sorry for sorrow, probably would to life and ever of brilliancy but reluctant to part with exclamation!Investigate its reason, nothing but be have no in time adjust good the mindset face to lose, didn't admit lose from the mental state, always can not let go to lose this heavy burden and always wallow in goat wool already.
The life of 　　's affair in a life time, the not equal to idea may at any time occurrence, because of, this world after all isn't you a person's world, the author of all being be also impossible pair of all of good matter all condescend to come on your[one] person's head, God at the time of openning a door for you, also to you close another door, have results at you of also want you to lose what in the meantime.
　　 So, at our lifes aren't Bon voyage of time, at our lifes appear some frustrate of time, at our life want for applause and fresh flowers of time, at our life situation choice with give up two difficult of time, how should we do?
The 　　 by this time might as well retreat one step, might as well change a kind of angle to measure and treat life road of get with lose, earnest but reasonableness ground go to detection whereabouts reason, will detection the sky being still clear, world still beauty, the life be as usual fine.Meeting detection at the time of giving up to a kind of thing again change come another not and not of results.Sometimes, lose is not always a loss, on the contrary is 1 kind to offer, give up more different choose site for capital is a sadness, contrary will become a kind of beauty, because of giving up oneself to mean choice, exactitude of give up, be success of choice.
On the train that the 　　 drive in a row, an old man carelessly dropped a lately- buy new shoe lane 1, surroundings of person all feel sorry for for him.Didn't expect that old man immediately didn't hestitate the ground to two shoe to throw to go out from the window way, public and surprised.Old man explanation way:"This shoe are regardless how expensive, to me already have no any use, if drive who pick up a pair of shoe, perhaps return ability wear!"
　　 Obviously, the old man's behavior have already had value judgment:Would rather positively give up than embrace remnants to guard to lack.
　　 Reality life in, perhaps our everybody may meet to lose, with it for lose displeased, return not equal to face reality, perhaps what you lose is exactly an others hope get;With it in for lose of pain and sufferings flounder, the wave take a lot of time, return not equal to positively give up, effort look for another choice.
　　 This is such as life also positive of many failure similar, since have been irretrievable, again feel sorry for regret also not help matters.With it inwardly mentally taxing in the review, return not equal to the wreath attend to on all sides, re- invigorate, cherish now of own.Not the important cause is a failure with lose but do meaningless self-reproach with sigh;The academic association give up, will detection life being 1 kind to really surmount, 1 kind really win ego of strong carriage.
The 　　 let we academic association give up, because of academic association give up, oneself be 1 kind to eliminate, a kind of choice, eliminate oneself of weak item and shortage, choice oneself of strong item and advantage.Give up is to don't think enterprising, because of, the just right ground give up, is exactly for the sake of betterly enterprising.

Gives up the correctness, is the success which choose!