请问，“不可多得英雄气，最难消受美人恩”这句话源自哪里？是什么意思？请详细解释和说明。
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"最难消受美人恩"——见下诗
此句出自近代牟伯融之《红棉叹》，汪辟疆《光宣以来诗坛旁记》中收该诗，并以为此诗“诗格不高”。全诗如下：
《红棉叹》(牟伯融)
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